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Mon, Jun. 29th, 2009, 09:11 pm
Shifting paradigms

As I sat on panels this weekend, I began to think about redefining myself. I had been introducing myself as a "scholar" but discovered that this can cause (subconsciously) some to become defensive and mildly hostile towards remarks that really aren't negative. It happens in cyberspace, too, and eventually I get tired and discouraged by these occasional reactions from others, particularly if they hit me at the wrong time.

Of course, to be honest, I *have* been known to whack people over the head with scholarly credentials when they say something I think is wrong and hold onto the position like a bulldog on a bone. That may be seen as bullying on my part.

So I did some thinking about it and after long rumination, I decided that it would be best to simply identify myself as a "humorist." I think it sounds friendly, and there are a number of humorists who have an interesting range of talents, so it might not be too outre' to talk about a play or the latest silly filk or whatever (speaking of which, I had several requests to post the lyrics for "Wardrobe accident" and I will do that tomorrow.)

Of course, then everyone will expect me to be funny.

I'm not sure where the rat traps and unintended consequences in THAT label are, but I guess I'll go find out. I don't want to seem arrogant, but saying you're a scholar seems to set you up for being perceived as arrogant. I think maybe it'll be just good enough to be a humorist.

Tue, Jun. 30th, 2009 03:12 am (UTC)
[info]black_rider

Prefacing something with "casual" helps. I'm a casual historian. Or I enjoy history as a hobby. Seems like people give you a little more credit, but not so much as to instantly assume you're a threat.

Tue, Jun. 30th, 2009 04:19 am (UTC)
[info]wordslinger

Interesting suggestion. I'll try it in certain situations.

Tue, Jun. 30th, 2009 04:09 am (UTC)
[info]chipuni

I think that works!

Or just say that you're a writer. And specify what you write about depending on the crowd.

Tue, Jun. 30th, 2009 04:18 am (UTC)
[info]wordslinger

I tried that. Then I have to add artist/cartoonist and a whole laundry list and it just makes me tired.

Tue, Jun. 30th, 2009 05:01 am (UTC)
[info]jomadge

IMHO, either label has the potential of sounding pretentious, but "scholar" is a much better fit. The word "humorist" makes me think of Dave Barry.

Writer/artist always works, and would put you in good company at any convention (with your fellow guests and attendees). The fact that you wear other hats, too, could be worked in as the situation demanded ... or not. Keep 'em guessing! ;-)

Tue, Jun. 30th, 2009 10:59 am (UTC)
[info]haikujaguar

I often think about this too (given how many things I do).

These days, instead of saying "I'm a writer" I just say "I write and paint." Something about going with the verb form makes the conversations that result more comfortable.

Tue, Jun. 30th, 2009 01:37 pm (UTC)
[info]shockwave77598

Then simply don't use your credentials. I never do - use your credentials, that is :)

Seriously though, just leave them in a back pocket and let them give you an inner glow that nobody else can see.

Tue, Jun. 30th, 2009 06:27 pm (UTC)
[info]traveller_blues: Sometimes, go with what you already flow with.

Why not just make up cards, in 12 point Palatino font, proclaiming you as a 'Wordslinger?' And see how many people get the joke?

"Sorry, folks, time's up, and I'm all out of bullet points."

And now you just reminded me of a button I had made for myself a long time ago when I did the con circuit more often...

"Have pun: Will Babble."

-Traveller

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